Biblical instructions from the Word of God on how to stay happily married. Married to my precious wife for twenty-nine years and her acquaintance for thirty-three years because we were able to communicate and respected each other. We both came under the Lordship of Christ at the same time, which is the glue that has kept us in love. We have raised two young daughters, and each is pursuing their goals. Therefore, I am well qualified to provide biblical counseling to any marriage headed to the grave. Marriages must have effective two-way communications to stay alive. The number one cause for divorce is a failure to communicate and loss of respect. The quickest way to desiccate a marriage that has problems is to speak the word DIVORCE. The word is a dagger to any marriage in trouble. Take God’s advice your marriage can survive. The bottom line, how much are you willing to take? As William Johnsen quote, “If it is to be, it is up to me.”  You can fight or let it go; the choice is yours!